16 years ago today

16 years ago today, Adam Michael Seip was born still into this world. He was such a beautiful baby and he was the 3rd son of one of the most wonderful women I know. Chris is also one of my best friends. Chris sent me a message about Adam’s birthday today and said “#16 today-he’d be getting his driver’s license. i feel like i’m the only one left who really remembers him as a live, kicking, hiccuping baby. i feel so alone and so sad.”

Please help me let Chris know she isn’t alone and that there are other people out there who will help her remember.

*It’s snowing. We have snow for Adam’s birthday.

15 Responses to 16 years ago today
  1. Busted
    December 18, 2009 | 6:51 pm

    Please tell your friend we’re remembering her little one too. I can only hope that in 15 years I’m not the only one that remembers our Doodles. Much love to her.

  2. CreoleInDC
    December 19, 2009 | 12:53 am

    Aw geez…sweetie…my heart aches for you.

    I pray you found peace today.

  3. battynurse
    December 19, 2009 | 1:34 am

    Sending many warm wishes and hugs her way on this difficult day.

  4. The Steadfast Warrior
    December 19, 2009 | 2:27 am

    Sending warm thoughts…

  5. Erica
    December 19, 2009 | 3:05 am

    I don’t know what to say but I am sending my hugs and warm thoughts to Chris.

  6. Soralis
    December 19, 2009 | 3:07 am

    Hugs to your friend.

  7. April
    December 19, 2009 | 3:35 am

    Our babies are never forgotten. Please let Chris know that we remembered with her today.

  8. Tiff
    December 19, 2009 | 11:44 am

    I know her pain, please tell her to stay strong, I am thinking of her.

  9. Stacie
    December 19, 2009 | 4:52 pm

    Sending love and hugs to your friend and you…

  10. Julia
    December 21, 2009 | 1:46 am

    I am coming up on our third anniversary. 16 seems so far away. And yet, I think I can see it from here.

    Remembering Adam with your friend and you.

  11. MrsSpock
    December 21, 2009 | 11:06 am

    Remembering with you…

  12. AnnaMarie
    December 21, 2009 | 10:38 pm

    Here through LFCA.

    A few days late but thinking of Chris and Adam. Our precious, lost ones are never forgotten.

  13. Dora
    December 21, 2009 | 10:42 pm

    Thinking of you and your friend.

  14. JamieD
    December 22, 2009 | 10:36 pm

    I am thinking of you and your friend and sending Adam birthday wishes.

  15. JuliaS
    January 5, 2010 | 12:44 am

    Belated birthday wishes and remembering your friend’s son.

    The early anniversaries were hard, but I still find some of the later ones – particularly the “milestone” ones like starting school, driver’s license to be particularly sharp. :0( Part of the anticipation of having a baby is the expectation of seeing them grow from infant to child to teen to adult and all those requisite amazing moments in between. Sometimes it seems as though it is only us baby loss mama’s that really get that and continue to remember it, even as the years pass by.

    Many gentle good wishes to you and your friend Chris.

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