This past weekend, the boys and I went to a graduation party for a young lady we use to live down the street from. I remember meeting Jennifer over 9 years ado when she was in the 3rd grade. Now, she is graduating and going off to college. I know it happens to everyone. I know everyone says it. Where has the time gone and how have they become so grown up?
It seems like only yesterday that we were bringing Marty home from the hospital. He was a big baby, almost 9 lbs, but he seemed so little to me. I could cradle him in one arm and he could curl up on my chest. Now, he is taller than me and I only have 3 years until it’s his graduation party I’m planning and attending.
If I admit Marty is that old, I suppose I have to admit that Joey is finishing elementary school and will be starting middle school next year. It won’t be too long until I have to say that he is taller than me too.
Even my baby, Gabriel, isn’t a baby anymore. Gabe is wrapping up his kindergarten year and he’s become so tall. He is actually taller than either of his brothers were at that age.
It’s both hard and wonderful watching them grow up. If I do my job right, I have to watch them stumble and fall. It’s the only way they can really learn. But, I also get to see them learn and develop. I get to watch them become compassionate, caring, hard working individuals. If I do my job right, my boys will grow into men and will make their way in the world independent of me and Vic. It makes me so proud watching them take their first steps along this road. If I’m truthful, the older two have takes more than just their first steps along this road. My boys aren’t babies anymore and I just can’t figure out where the time has gone.