Too Late Good-Bye

I woke up this morning to find this post on Wiseguy’s blog.

I am a Bloody Fool

Lola had a cardiac arrest on Jan 16, 2011 which she did not survive. I was kept in the dark. 

I can’t even begin to express my sorrow, how fucking lost and empty I’m sure she feels and how helpless I feel at not even being able to be there to comfort my friend. Wiseguy, I love you and I am praying for you.

And, too all of you who have already been by there to offer your love and support, THANK YOU.

9 Responses to Too Late Good-Bye
  1. SY
    January 22, 2011 | 1:07 pm

    Wow, sorry for your loss.
    You are in my prayers
    – Sy

  2. Kymberli
    January 22, 2011 | 1:22 pm

    Kristin, I’m devastated. Do you know how it came to be that a few days went by before WiseGuy knew that Lola had passed? That just seems so much more…insulting, for lack of a better word. I’m just heartbroken. 🙁

  3. Kristin (kekis)
    January 22, 2011 | 1:46 pm

    I am heartbroken for her and feel just sick to hear that Lola is gone and how that has torn her apart. Wish there was more we could do . . .

  4. Delenn
    January 22, 2011 | 2:07 pm

    Man oh man. Fucking unfair!!! I am thinking of her and her Lola.

  5. Beautiful Mess
    January 22, 2011 | 2:47 pm

    The first words out of my mouth were “NOOOO” I can’t even believe this! I agree with Kym, its insulting that they didn’t tell her! I really want to go kick someone’s ass.

    Thank you for passing along all the info, hon.

  6. Mrs. Gamgee
    January 22, 2011 | 3:44 pm

    I know it goes without saying, but if you are in contact with WiseGuy, please let her know how much we love her and are hurting for her.

    This f*cking sucks.

  7. MrsSpock
    January 22, 2011 | 5:03 pm

    Benn thinking about them all day…

  8. Dora
    January 22, 2011 | 6:58 pm

    I just saw her post. I’m in shock. Devastating. I cannot imagine the logic behind keeping her in the dark. She deserved a chance to say goodbye to her daughter.

  9. Alana
    January 22, 2011 | 8:41 pm

    I went a little while ago, after seeing the link on Mrs. Gamgee’s blog. SO tragic.

    I’m with you and the others—-the decision to keep WiseGuy in the dark makes matters even more difficult to comprehend.

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