Kvelling

image It has been almost a year since I last posted and I am a little ashamed. There have been so many things I should have bragged about but I kept getting bogged down in the details of every day life.

When I last wrote, Vic and I had dropped Marty off at Lenoir-Rhyne for his first year of college. If you read back then, you might remember that it was a rough moment (or two or three rough moments). Unfortunately, that first attempt at college was short circuited by a crippling anxiety attack. As bad as the situation was, I was so proud of how Marty handled it. He advocated for himself. He arranged for a medical deferral. And, he came home prepared to make the OCD/anxiety his bitch instead of letting it continue to ride roughshod over him.

Over the last year, Marty truly has taken charge of the OCD/anxiety. He has developed tons of coping mechanisms and he no longer lets it rule his life. Sure, we might need to buy stock in a medical glove company and a spare vat of rubbing alcohol might be a welcome addition to our arsenal but, those are just tools he uses to manage stuff. My boy went from being so overwhelmed at the thought of managing day to day events on his own to being excited about college. Marty has conquered his germaphobia and is able to do his own laundry, clean his own bathroom, and even plunge a toilet. I wasn’t too popular when I insisted he learn that last one but he did it. Marty also volunteered at Dorcas Shop, a local thrift store. Through this, he was able to realize that it was ok to get dirty and he could just clean himself when he got home.

For those of you who have never dealt with OCD or anxiety disorders, these may not seem like big things but they are. They are HUGE accomplishments.  See, there was never any question that Marty was and is smart enough to kick ass at college. The only question was what he needed to do to overcome the anxiety and the OCD induced germaphobia and how long it would take. Marty was determined to beat this and get back up to school. Through the wonders of modern pharmaceuticals and a lot of hard work on his part, he has done it.

So, tomorrow we head back up to Hickory and Friday is move in day for the Class of 2020. My boy will be there and I couldn’t be more proud!image

 

6 Responses to Kvelling
  1. Andrea Bates
    August 17, 2016 | 4:03 pm

    These are huge steps. I’m so happy for your kiddo. So happy for all of you.
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  2. Mrs. Gamgee
    August 17, 2016 | 4:10 pm

    Woohoo! Way to go Marty! Anxiety is a biotch and a tough thing to battle. Prayers for strength and enduance as you take this step… and for a fun and memorable college experience!

  3. Jen
    August 17, 2016 | 4:12 pm

    That is fantastic news!
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  4. a
    August 17, 2016 | 4:13 pm

    That’s amazing! Nice work, Marty!

    I hope he has a wonderful time at school…(and I suppose I hope he learns a lot too. 🙂 )

  5. Lynn
    August 17, 2016 | 4:16 pm

    Way to go, Marty!! Hoping and praying you have a wonderful year!

  6. Amy
    August 18, 2016 | 2:19 pm

    Way to go, Marty! So proud of you. Have a great year.

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